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Culture War Roundup for the week of November 7, 2022

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I think you probably did better than I would have, but I think it could use a better ending. Ditch the partisan voice, sum up the factual content dispassionately, and then lay out why this is worth talking about.

I see how it could be improved, but I swear it wasn't partisanship! I was expecting the story to have the same status as Jeffrey Epstein - so out there, both sides can unite on being shocked at the whole thing. In hindsight, it was naive, given how sensitive the trans issues are but I thought we could make a separation between that, and WPATH in particular.

looking at the conversation below... Does this look productive to you?

Not exactly what I was looking for, no. I mentioned in another comment, I find the conspiracism vs "nothing to see here, move along" angle a lot more interesting.

I'll note that some of them are actually moving beyond that to engage with the content! That's commendable!

No. If the goal is to build respect between the two sides, we can't have one side treat the other like they were babies. It's not commendable, it's expected. Imagine writing something like that in response to one of ymeshkout's posts about election fraud.

Here's my take on a few productive questions:

I think the thread is dying down a bit, so I don't know if I can have much impact on the conversation, but I can still answer these if you want.