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Culture War Roundup for the week of November 7, 2022

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It's a bad look, for sure, but how is this not just run-of-the-mill drunken disorderliness? "Racism" is not really the same thing as racial epithets. If you get drunk and repeatedly call a man a "dick" we don't generally run a story about a "sexist outburst." This strikes me as a wild exaggeration:

extreme racism can happen among the younger generations

Extreme drunkenness can happen among younger generations, for sure. And when your drunk brain looks for the most offensive thing it can say to someone, and your social milieu is one where a racial epithet is the most offensive word you can think of, then the more strongly we disapprove of racial epithets, the more often we're going to hear them from angry, irrational people. Calling that "racism" seems like rhetorical sleight of hand to me.

Imagine a student getting plastered and, noticing her RA's MAGA cap, calling the RA a "Nazi" two hundred times. I can't imagine students putting together a petition demanding the drunk person's expulsion--it would be ridiculous. The drunk girl clearly has some problems, but none of them appear solvable by either tarring her as a "racist" or by expelling her from school.

If you get drunk and repeatedly call a man a "dick" we don't generally run a story about a "sexist outburst."

I expect that if you got drunk and repeatedly called a woman a "cunt" it would be considered a "sexist outburst" however.

Depends on some context, "cunt" has some moderately accepted uses for both genders in some social contexts. There are some situations I could call someone a cunt in front of female friends and have it not be interpreted as sexist at all. "nigger" really doesn't have a non-racist case for use beyond the describe/use distinction.

"cunt" does not mean, "you are womanly and thus bad because women are bad" the way "nigger" implies.

I'm not sure how this relates to my comment, which was just pointing out that calling a woman a "cunt" is more likely to be seen as sexist than calling a man a "dick".