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If we're going to see a change, look at non-European countries to lead the way on that. 45% of Koreans are one of Kim, Park, or Lee. By comparison, the three most common American surnames (Smith, Johnson, Williams) amount to around 2% of the population. On the first name front, we all know how popular Mohammed is thanks to Superbad, there are somewhere north of 150mm Muhammed's in the world. Honestly, there are times where I think that other countries didn't really "get" the whole system of Christian name Surname.
But there's nothing stopping you from calling yourself Chad-2980! We have a shocking degree of freedom to change our names in this country! You can just start calling yourself that, and places like your bank and your credit card company will often just start using it if you ask. Sign up for mail under that name. For ID you'll have to eventually go to the government, but even that doesn't have many restrictions on it. As the SSN has become more powerful (widely decried as the mark of the beast at inception), it's easier to change your daily use name. The SSN is the codebase running underneath the GUI of the name.
As an aside, one of my roommates back in law school convinced a girl he met online dating that we all referred to each other by our class rank. Like we'd greet each other as "74" or "139" or "6"; and every semester you had to relearn everyone's name because it changed.
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