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I'd love to be able to share some. As it is, I'm on a fixed income well below $2,000/mo, I have six sons, 4 DILs, 4 grandkids, and friends who are all in line before you. Sorry, but I think it'll be a long wait...
Woiuld you mind sending me your computer monitor, or your refrigerator? I really doubt that your family members called dibs on them first and are in line before me.
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Why is there a line, and why did your hypothetical not mention the necessity of line-waiting previously? Why can't requests simply be made and granted in the order they were received? I doubt any of the people you listed actually have asked you for 10k USD, so shouldn't I get what I asked for now? I want it, you not giving it to me is theft by your own argument via Proudhon. Are you a thief? Nor is the fixed income really a substantive obstacle, I'm sure you own 10k worth of possessions that you could sell or hand over, and I'll even waive any amount above what you do currently possess if I'm mistaken.
Alternatively, I also am willing to "share" my resources with you, provided I also get to arbitrarily create a "line", place you at the back of it, and ensure that you never reach the front and hence that the sharing never actually happens.
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