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This is not the fault of the "mental health industry." Ask any clinically practicing therapist, social worker, or psychiatrist what they think of "little t trauma" and they will BITCH.
The problem is some combination of wokeism/snowflakeism/safetyism/influencer culture etc.
You will find professionals supporting this kind of garbage but it is more often non-clinical/non-practicing people.
You will find that people in mental health find the current paradigms on these matters to be extremely deleterious to human development and flourishing.
Additionally, something that often gets missed when therapy is mentioned - the goal of therapy is to stop therapy. Competent therapists will emphasize this early and often and actually do it.
Just because the people who work in the industry think that these paradigms aren't conducive to human flourishing, doesn't mean the paradigms in question didn't ultimately arise within that industry. I'm sure there are Catholic priests who have misgivings about this or that component of Vatican doctrine, or people who work in the gambling industry who feel guilty about how they've been complicit in ruining so many lives.
Of course, but lots of therapists are incompetent and aren't weeded out quickly enough, if at all.
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