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Basically everything I have read about transgenderism is ridiculous. Neovaginas, dilators, the fetishes, the entire ideology, like there is no way its true. There is no way it makes these people happy, these people are not going to be happy. They are destroying themselves. The kids parents are destroying them. Why stop them? Why argue to save them? Just let them destroy themselves. Let them destroy their children. These people are my out group, they believe almost every other thing I hate about my society, and they are destroying themselves. Why stop them?
Because a 12-year-old who believes everything his parents believe often grows up to be an adult who believes in very different things.
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As a parent, my concern is that the contagion isn't strictly limited to households and parents that are encouraging of it. Widespread encouragement of what's quasi-suicide that could impact my kids is something that I find very distasteful, even if I agree most incidences will be in people who are generally my ideological adversaries.
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This is probably a smaller issue now that the opposition to trans became more prominent, but many parents were Milgram Experiment-ed into it. The point is to give them enough info that they realize they don't have to listen to the dude in the labcoat.
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