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Culture War Roundup for the week of November 28, 2022

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There is such a word. I don't remember this anecdote, but am inferring from @JarJarJedi's telling that it's "Допереключаешься" (doperekliuchaesh'sya). I have never used this word myself, but it's reconstructable from first principles.

Russian, line some other languages, allows for easily composing words. The prefix Do (literally the connotation of getting "to" some point) means, especially in the context of the rest of the word, that further/excessive performance of this action will lead to bad outcomes; prefix pere means changing (for example, "переходить улицу" is "changing sides/crossing the street", literally cross-go); kliuch[ать] is literally "key", usually included in words like "включить/выключить" ("turn on/off"), the 'esh' indicates that it's second person singular i.e. addressed to the listener and concerns his actions, and sya turns it to passive voice (...does it though?) and stresses that the consequences will be to himself. So the literal meaning of the word is, perhaps, "You will get in trouble from all that clicking/tuning to channel after channel". And it sounds rude.

Some extra humorous effect comes from this word being similar to the much more common doviyobivaeysh'sya, which is an obscene way to say... uhhh.... «keep swaggering/fucking around/acting like you're cool shit and you'll find out», I guess. Or something.

Naturally almost any verb root can be plugged into this construction to much the same effect.