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Yes, he is a sexual deviant. That’s in itself only one strike against him, but he has dedicated a significant portion of his life to spreading(technically ‘advocating’) his sexual deviancy. And I’m totally comfortable saying the government shouldn’t hire people who talk about how awesome it is to have sex with animals.
Just to be clear, this is just your opinion. I'd like to hear more about why you think they're a sexual deviant with more reasons than 'I disagree'.
I'm not familiar with them ever advocating for sex with actual animals, rather just some sort of creative role-playing. Otherwise we'd be in jail when girls call us daddy in bed. Regardless, I'm still interested to hear exactly why you think this sort of role play is so bad as to justify the government knowing about it.
But remember folks, there is no such thing as the slippery slope! Posting images of yourself in BDSM harness gear with your puppy subs kneeling beside you isn't any big deal! It's just normal sexual behaviour like cis het people holding hands in public!
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Pretending to have sex with animals is degenerate sexual deviancy for the same reasons lolicon is- sure, it may not be the sort of thing that should be illegal, but it's very definitely morally suspect to imitate a forbidden act as closely as can be for delectation. I don't think we should go digging to see if anyone has ever dressed up as a puppy during sex, but when you're giving public conferences about it, well, kinda don't get to claim it's totally private anymore.
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Words have commonly-accepted meanings. The commonly-accepted meaning of "deviant," as memorialized in Webster's dictionary, is "straying or deviating especially from an accepted norm" or "someone or something that deviates from a norm, especially: a person who differs markedly (as in social adjustment or behavior) from what is considered normal or acceptable"
It seems fairly noncontroversial to me that Brinton's (1) style of dress, (2) preferred pronoun, (3) self-described "sadistic" sexuality, and (4) particular interest in "pup play" puts him far outside of the norm of gender presentation and sexual behavior in the west.
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Your comments repeatedly imply that he is just a normal privacy-minded person like you or me, but the dastardly media went snooping around his private life to out him. Like here, you are telling him to justify the government digging up his private sex life as if he isn’t shouting it from the rooftops and making it absolutely front and center of his presentation and public image. Nobody has to do any snooping here. This is like that huge breasted Canadian trans teacher.
If I publicly made age-play and daddy-daughter roleplay central to my public image, and tweeted on my public, professional twitter about my sex-with-daughter roleplay I wouldn’t be surprised if HR paid me a visit.
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