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Culture War Roundup for the week of June 9, 2025

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This isn't really a "rationalist" forum in the old sense, and there is much tension between the rationalists that treat her as beyond reproach and the exiles around here. Not unlike how Scott's shine has faded for many people here, and that's how we end up two or three forums removed. I think both Aella and Scott have wildly overrated beliefs in the value of their surveys, for example.

She's a master baiter who hit her limit regarding the consequences of her baiting, who promotes a lifestyle that would be an unmitigated disaster for the vast majority of people, and either doesn't seem to accept the consequences of that lifestyle or puts on a façade of not understanding the consequences as part of her baiting-persona. She tries to toe an impossible line. Too many people take Joe Rogan seriously, but my perception is that Joe doesn't take himself seriously, and that's an important difference.

I think the contrast in reaction to Nicholas Decker was mentioned as one of the last straws for her, and that makes sense. The truly consistent people continued to consider him a hateable idiot even after the stunt photo, and did not switch to calling him "based."

Is this the same Nicholas Decker who wrote the "when to kill Trump" essay or whatever?

Among other "utilitarian caricature" positions, yes

Yep, also he defended zoophilia.

I look forward to his polyamorous wedding with Aella after a tearful, twitter-gangbang based reconciliation. Just like in the movies!

That doesn't sound like any movie I watched.

Link is empty. What was the stunt photo?