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naraburns  nihil supernum  1yr ago (text post)   3597 thread views

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Does anyone have any general advice on picking an engagement ring? I'll be proposing soon and I honestly have no idea where to start. I assume that walking into a local jewelry store is the easiest way to do this but also by far the most expensive. Is there a better way?

My now-husband let me lead the ring shopping in a way. We discussed prices, band material, and stones and went to jewelry stores together to figure out what I like when it comes to size, style, and material (read - color). I didn’t point to a ring and say, “this one,” but I did pick a few as at least examples for him. He ended up choosing one of those we both really liked. I was still surprised by his choice (though it was my #1) and his proposal. Proposals are memorable, special moments even without being a surprise.

I recommend this method if your future fiancé is amenable to it. Don’t go fiddling in the dark about something she may be wearing for the rest of her life.

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