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Culture War Roundup for the week of December 5, 2022

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Sorry, this is not addressing the content of your comment, but "I bought this expensive watch because of what the guy posted about trying to make his dick bigger" is certainly an unusual way to do comparison shopping, but if it worked out for you, best of luck!

A fancier way of saying this is that I bought it for half of dealer cost, and he sold it for more than a dealer would have given him, and we were able to cut out the middleman because his comments bridged the trust gap; reading his comment history passed the Turing Test for me, bots and scammers aren't yet that sophisticated ime. I've done this a lot of times, I mentioned the dickstretcher because that's hilarious.

But in general, didn't she have easier ways of finding impressionable and naive young women?

I have no idea of the difficulty level of finding impressionable and naive young women and recruiting them to be prostitots, in real life or online. I know it's easy to seduce of-age, mature women on Reddit while remaining pseudonymous; so it strikes me it wouldn't be a bad choice, but idk how it translates to young girls. Paging Dr. Pedofascist, I need his opinion on this one.