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Culture War Roundup for the week of August 25, 2025

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No, I think the only way to get close to parity given the biological realities is just allowing men the option to opt out of the legal responsibilities.

I'm fine with that in the abstract, although in terms of concrete details it seems like a system open to abuse. But I'm sorry you're in that situation, and I imagine you don't want to debate something so personal.

From the conservative perspective, that's basically what John McCain and Mitt Romney actually did, and that's why so many people picked Trump - because for all his flaws he's a fighter.

The bad thing about McCain and Romney is that they lost, and the good thing about Trump is that he won.

Not to mention it's easy to lionize men who never won the presidency and had to actually get their hands dirty.

OTOH, Mangione (who I think is an actual drug-addled nutjob, rather than any kind of ideologue) is openly lionized on the left.

You think Mangione doesn't have fans on the right? Are you telling me MAGA is a populist movement that loves CEOs of health insurance companies?

If a future Democrat administration invites in a hundred million foreigners on welfare, and all but openly tolerates them raping my children while viciously repressing the native population, then yeah.

For all the conservative memes mocking childless liberal women for their breathless, supposed erotic fixation on the Handmaid's Tale you have a shocking lack of awareness for similar fantasies on the right. There's this odd fetishism with home invaders and having to defend your family from the rapist hordes at the gates.

just keyboard rage until exhaustion

Isn't that the point of this place?