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Am I an acceptable poster for theMotte.org?

Hi, I'm a long time reader of Slate Star Codex and I used to post on the Reddit forum until I got banned. There are a few reasons that I believe I got banned.

  1. Uncharitably claiming that Leftist censorship was a threat to the rationalist community

  2. Advocating for violence

  3. Not being kind

I understand why all of these things could have been a problem on the Reddit community, but I would like to know if they're still going to be a problem here, since I don't want to invest a lot of time creating a profile and having good-faith discussions with people if I'm only going to be banned again. Here are the reasons that I think these three issues shouldn't be a problem anymore.

  1. I was right, and everybody who disagreed with me was wrong. The fact that the community had to move here proves it. I'm not expecting an apology but I think that time has proven me correct on that score.

  2. Violence is a completely justifiable response to tyranny. While calls to violence may be against Reddit rules (and the community was right to ban me from Reddit because my rhetoric could have caused problems for the mods) there are no such rules here. In fact, rdrama (which helped set up this offsite community, and whom you should all be grateful to) actively encourages calls to violence. If a rational and logical case can be made for violence then I think there is no good reason not to hear that case out. If you're forced to censor people you disagree with because you're unable to make a stronger case for pacifism over violence in the open marketplace of ideas, then you should question whether your pacifism is actually a worthwhile philosophy.

  3. Kindness and truth are different terminal values. If you optimize for kindness then it is self-evident that you will have to sacrifice truth at some point. Obviously the Reddit community has chosen kindness as its terminal value, but I'm hoping that this offsite community is enlightened enough to choose truth.

I'm linking to a few articles from my Substack here so you have a few examples of my style of writing and can make a better judgement about whether I would be a good fit for the offsite community. I'm also on rdrama where my username is sirpingsalot. If you think I'm not a good fit for the offsite either, then no hard feelings - I'm happy to take my ideas to more sympathetic communities instead. I just don't want to put in the effort of investing time and energy here if I'm only going to get banned again for the same reasons.

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I was right, and everybody who disagreed with me was wrong.

I'll tell you something for nothing - going into anywhere with that attitude is only going to end up with friction and it'll all end in tears. Maybe you were right and everybody else was wrong, but were you a pain in the arse about it? Because if you steam into a debate with "I'm the only sensible person who knows the truth here and the rest of you are a bunch of sheeple", I for one will roll up my sleeves and have an argument with you even if the topic is "is grass green" and you said "yes it is".

Start off with an aggressive, oppositional stance and that sets the tone for replies.

In fact, rdrama (which helped set up this offsite community, and whom you should all be grateful to) actively encourages calls to violence.

They do it in an exaggerated, satirical, parodic style. Nobody should take it seriously. On the other hand, if you are going all-in on "The tree of liberty is watered with the blood of tyrants" over a stupid Internet slap fight, then you are cutting a rod to beat your own back.

I'm hoping that this offsite community is enlightened enough to choose truth

And the big question here is: what is truth? Who decides? How do we decide? Why should I think you are telling the truth, rather than pushing your partisan opinion in a maximally objectionable manner?

Welcome aboard for discussion, debate and yes, even an amount of shouting and banging your fist on the table, but if you're coming in here with "I will be rude, call for the heads of my enemies on spikes, and generally stomp around claiming I'm the only one with the brains and the guts to know the truth while everyone else is spineless and would rather be nice even if that means lying - but nobody should hold me accountable for my behaviour, because it is all in the service of TRUTH", then you will get objections to that.

To adapt a quotation from Lewis' "The Four Loves":

But the domestic Rudesby means something quite different when he claims liberty to say "anything." Having a very imperfect sort of Affection himself, or perhaps at that moment none, he arrogates to himself the beautiful liberties which only the fullest Affection has a right to or knows how to manage. He then uses them spitefully in obedience to his resentments; or ruthlessly in obedience to his egoism; or at best stupidly, lacking the art. And all the time he may have a clear conscience. He knows that Affection takes liberties. He is taking liberties. Therefore (he concludes) he is being affectionate. Resent anything and he will say that the defect of love is on your side. He is hurt. He has been misunderstood.

"Oh! I thought this place cared about truth? But I see I was mistaken - you only want to be nice" when someone calls you out on being rude doesn't mean "I'm in the right and they're in the wrong", it means "You're being an asshole".

EDIT: I read a couple of your Substack articles and while I would like to be in general agreement with you, as a conservative myself, man you're an idiot. You write a manifesto about revolution and overthrowing the incompetent elites and installing a true meritocracy - "it was simply a calculated and very strategic attempt to overthrow an unjust system that discriminates against ambitious and intelligent people like myself". Well, great. The Great Day has come, the top 20 ruler slots are filled by the truly deserving on merit. And you're one of them. Now, what about numbers 21-40 who are also smart and ambitious, but didn't get one of the slots? Well, by your own metric, their rational self-interest means that if they want to gain the rewards they feel that they have earned on True and Pure Merit, then they should revolt against you in turn and drag you down and kill you.

And so we get the French Revolution, where the ideals of True And Pure Merit turned into the Terror, and those who were sending people to the guillotine last week were being carted off in tumbrils themselves this week. Yeah, that's going to make for a stable society! Sorry, but this is stupid. As a revenge fantasy about how you'll show them, you'll show them all! it's cathartic but it won't work in reality.

EDIT EDIT: And a second article brings me to the conclusion that you are one of the incompetent kids of the rich elites ("My ex-wife ... so that she could exploit my family’s wealth") who don't deserve what you have and should be pulled down so a poor but smart deserving person gets what you have on True and Pure Merit, not by being a nepo baby like you (" ruler parents working hard to ensure that their own kids grow up to claim ruler positions...held by worthless idiots who attained their positions either through affirmative action or through nepotism ...their children, who constantly have an unfair advantage over you".

"But I really am smart and deserve what I have!" Yes, and so say all the people your other article dismisses as the worthless beneficiaries of nepotism. "No, my family isn't one of those rich ruler elites, it's someone else!" It's always someone else, it's always different when it comes to me. Cis straight white male from a background of wealth? Check your privilege, as they say. Into the tumbril with you, aristo!

But an NPC never feels guilt over their behavior because in their mind they are always the hero of their own story.

"I was right, and everybody who disagreed with me was wrong. The fact that the community had to move here proves it. I'm not expecting an apology but I think that time has proven me correct on that score." "Society mistreats neurodivergent people like me, and until society adjusts its attitude towards people like me and starts treating us better, I feel zero obligation to contribute to society’s well-being: I prioritize my own well-being first and feel no shame over this choice."

NPC or Quest Hero? Let the people decide (it's the True And Pure Meritocratic Way)!

I'll tell you something for nothing - going into anywhere with that attitude is only going to end up with friction and it'll all end in tears. Maybe you were right and everybody else was wrong, but were you a pain in the arse about it? Because if you steam into a debate with "I'm the only sensible person who knows the truth here and the rest of you are a bunch of sheeple", I for one will roll up my sleeves and have an argument with you even if the topic is "is grass green" and you said "yes it is".

This is what I mean when I say kindness took precedence to truth in the old sub. When it turns out over time that I was right and other people were wrong, I expect them to be humble and admit it. If their pride takes precedence over the truth, and it's more important for them to stubbornly avoid admitting that they were wrong rather than conceding error, then I'm going to hurt them really badly until their survival instinct kicks in and they learn to prioritize facts over their hurt feelings. For example, if you don't like that I said "the grass is green" because you previously said it was blue, and I rubbed it in your face later when I was proven right, so you prefer to continue arguing with me about the color of the grass even though we both know you're wrong, then my position is that you will eventually admit the grass is green when we elect somebody who starts executing people who don't believe in the color of the grass. In other words, objective truth is more important to me than either your ego or your life. I don't see any value in the continued existence of people who are unable to admit when they're wrong because their pride takes precedence over the truth.

Am I going to attack people that way here, on this specific website? No, of course not. This is just my general philosophy of life. On this specific sub, I'm here to have fun. That means I will be polite and obey all the rules, except for "be kind" which I really can't do since that's a very nebulous and poorly defined metric. (And if the mods can offer a more concrete definition of "kindness" that is not subject to their individual whims then I'm happy to comply with "Be Kind" also. For example, you calling me a "moron" seems very unkind, but I notice no mods are stepping in to punish you for that. So I would like a definition of "kindness" that is more clear and precise so that instead of having that rule be selectively weaponized against me, it will be weaponized against everybody equally.) Instead, I will attack my enemies indirectly by supporting politicians who dog-whistle for their deaths, as well as promoting ideologies offsite that are inimical to their continued existence. Like I said, I'm not here to spread propaganda, I have plenty of other places where I can do that. I'm here for fun, and hopefully to learn something. But I don't like people who can't admit that they were wrong just because they think I'm a big meanie, and those people are my enemies. Are you capable of sharing a website with somebody who is your enemy as long as they agree to be polite and play by the same rules you do? Are you capable of even sharing a world with that person? These are important questions to ask.

Now my question is, can the Motte handle this attitude, or is "kindness" (whatever the hell that means) more important than honesty and truthfulness? I would like a mod to weigh in, because I don't feel like investing my time here if I'm just going to be banned again. If the mods don't feel that I'd be a good fit, then no hard feelings - I'll spend my time elsewhere.

You have not given any examples of how you are smarter and better. Your descriptions of what happened in your personal life could be easily read another way, in favour of the other person.

If you start off with "Punch me in the nose, I dare you" then you have no right to be surprised or offended when you get punched in the nose.