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The Bailey Podcast E030: Indubitably, Porn

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In this episode, we discuss porn.

Participants: Yassine, Interversity, Neophos, Xantos.

Links:

E016: The Banality of Catgirls (The Bailey)

Is Internet Pornography Causing Sexual Dysfunctions? A Review with Clinical Reports (Behavioral Sciences)

How Pornography Can Ruin Your Sex Life (Mark Manson)

Does too much pornography numb us to sexual pleasure? (Aeon Magazine)

The great porn experiment (TEDx)

Hikikomori (Wikipedia)

The Effects Of Too Much Porn: "He's Just Not That Into Anyone" (The Last Psychiatrist)

Hard Core (The Atlantic)

Recorded 2022-12-18 | Uploaded 2023-01-12

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Well, my wife and I are both into women, so when we have done it we watch lesbian porn, and my wife is simply so hot/arrogant that she can't be intimidated. Would be one explanation. There's also a flow aspect of it like @SubstantialFrivolity cites below, you're getting your appetite elsewhere but eating your meal at home. There's an element to watching her, for me, that's erotic because it's invading her privacy, watching what she does on her own when I'm at work late, etc.

My impression listening to your pod is that you're a young man about town, marriage is also inherently different. I've given my wife more orgasms than I've collected paychecks in my life, I'm not going to be easily intimidated. I've accepted my limitations, and accepted that she's accepted them. And at the end of the day, sometimes she's gonna do a better job getting herself wet.

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