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Culture War Roundup for the week of November 3, 2025

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Both are perfectly coherent.

The traditionalist view of this is man vs. man. Criminal women are still women, and as such still retain their primary value to [traditionalist] men. Thus, we should avoid actively enabling men, and above all criminal men (they claim to be women, but that's not relevant beyond the surface culture-war that raised the question) to damage that value.
That society holds a reserve of otherwise perfectly-functional women is supplemental to this group's power.

The progressive view of this is woman vs. woman. Criminal women are still sexual competition due to the above, so their getting raped by men reduces the average woman's sexual competition. Thus, we should actively enable criminal men (they claim to be women, but that's not relevant beyond the surface culture-war level that raised the question) to damage that value.
That society holds a reserve of otherwise perfectly-functional women is detrimental to this group's power.

People who aren't listening to their instincts like that are pretty boring by comparison; they think prison rape is bad, but if societal consensus is that prison rape is good it might as well be equal-opportunity. They're more likely to resemble progressives in this matter since their actions increase the number of women being raped in prison, but they're more likely to resemble traditionalists on the mirror image of this question, which is "should violent men go to prison at all?", for the same reason.