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Culture War Roundup for the week of November 3, 2025

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GenX is already boomers. Anyone older than a Millennial is a boomer, to anyone Millennial or younger. And I suspect that to Zed, the Millennials are boomers. I wouldn't be surprised if Gen Delta ended up calling Gen Alpha "boomers".

Internet rules:
Anyone who is retired is a boomer (the WW2 gen is 99% deceased and Silents are either deceased or forgotten).
Anyone who is contemplating retirement is a boomer.
Anyone who owns a house and has a decent job is a boomer.

t. Gen Y boomer

Setting aside the silliness over cultural milestones (Are Generation Jones and Xennials really that similar?), in fiscal/political terms Gen X is rapidly approaching Boomer territory, aka. retirement. Expect our gerontocracy problems to get worse in the short term as Gen Xers (a larger generation than the Silents) retire faster than old Boomers and Silents die.

Why, for example, is there suddenly such a fight over enhanced ACA subsidies? It turns out that somewhere along the way the ACA became a defacto extension of Medicare Advantage for the 55-65 crowd such that the most common age for an Obamacare enrollee is 64. Hell hath no fury like that of Bill and Shelley.

Well, I've already said that as an Xer if those ACA subsidies get extended I'm retiring American Style and taking all that sweet government money; I'll take a page (or hell, 30 pages) from Ayn Rand and call it restitution for some of the taxes I've paid.

That doesn't make me a boomer though! Perish the thought! No boomers in MY family; my parents are Silent.

Same here, to the point that I kind of missed the boat on boomer hate. I was a Gulf War baby with Gen X parents and Silent grandparents.