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Culture War Roundup for the week of November 3, 2025

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for every Hlynka-stan who misses him, there is someone who was screaming at us to ban him for years.

"50% of the forum loves them and 50% hates their guts" is practically the definition of an interesting poster. If there's unanimous agreement that someone is a good contributor, then they may indeed be a "good" poster, but there's a cap on how interesting they can be.

And I've already written several times about how we did everything we could, short of just literally saying "The rules don't apply to Hlynka," to avoid having to permaban him.

My suggestion has always been that bans are capped at a length of one year, except in incredibly egregious cases (e.g. spam bots, or the person launched cyberattacks on the forum or something). I don't expect that this suggestion will ever actually be implemented, but it is a possibility nonetheless.

Go on, tell me who on this list was a valuable contributor who you think should be granted amnesty?

Hlynka is the primary example of course, also fuckduck9000, AhhhTheFrench, AlexanderTurok.

"50% of the forum loves them and 50% hates their guts" is practically the definition of an interesting poster.

It's easy to be "interesting" (for some value of "interesting"). That's not the only criterion. The goal is not to be polarizing for its own sake. The guy going on about how having sex with your own prepubescent daughter should be legal was certainly interesting - and he wasn't even banned for expressing that opinion! He was banned for belligerently sneering at everyone who disagreed with him.

I don't expect that this suggestion will ever actually be implemented, but it is a possibility nonetheless.

I wouldn't be against it, per se, I just predict with high confidence that those who take advantage of the opportunity to return after a one-year ban will get banned again in short order.

Hlynka is the primary example of course, also fuckduck9000, AhhhTheFrench, AlexanderTurok.

As I told @The_Nybbler, fuckduck wasn't that interesting. AhhhTheFrench was a one-trick pony ("Hurr hurr religious people are so dumb!"). Hlynka and Turok I'll grant were interesting. However, see above. If you can convince Zorba to grant them an amnesty, I wouldn't oppose it, but I am also fairly certain they will not change their posting styles, which means in short order we'd be back to "Okay, are they so interesting that we let them keep just ignoring the rules?"