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The factual history is:
You were banned for an uncharitable bad faith post. I added in the ban message that factoring into the ban was the fact that multiple people had noted the nature of your post, and your responses were belligerent and filled the queue with reports.
You demanded that I point specifically to the other posts that were bad.
I declined, because I wasn't going to argue with you about each post in the thread.
You claimed this was unfair.
You still think this is unfair.
Your claim that the mods "Use secret reasons they won't tell you about to ban people they don't like" is false.
I notice a distinct lack of links this time in your false history. Let's go to the tape, where you said:
Are you saying that you lied then, when you said it was "fine"... or are you lying now, when you're saying that it was not fine and was the reason why I was banned.
For completeness, the reason you gave for why I was banned was:
I could repeat the rest of the history after that, but we've already done that. The entire premise of your current position is just factually false.
I asked for one specific thing to support your claim.
I asked for one specific thing to support your claim.
I did not claim this.
I don't even necessarily think this. I'm not sure "fair" has anything to do with it.
I didn't actually claim this.
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