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It's somewhat unclear how her career progression has gone after that video. Upon cursory Googling, some internet gossip suggests she's been on a leave of ambiguous nature from Meta for months while multiple rounds of layoffs have occurred, but has been feigning continual active employment there.
The type of equality symbol that lives between any publicity and good publicity is a classic debate, but it's also somewhat unclear how much 3.4M view in 24 hours is worth for a large company when it makes your workforce look bloated and your young female employees look like useless airheads beyond just serving as human office decorations (because the latter would definitely be a false impression, of course... right?). Likely bad for morale too. I'd be somewhat annoyed if a coworker uploaded a video like that—it would make us all look retarded by association. Plus I wouldn't like the feeling that at any moment I could be caught in the background of some coworker's tik-thottery as I go about my workday.
I imagine that description of what a Meta product manager is supposed to do is figurative rather than literal. In either case, feedback from internet tea suggests she herself does not view her job that way literally or figuratively. Apparently, she's offended rather than elated by any engagement where the response is less than positive about her daily routine at Meta, in deleting and blocking any ragebait-adjacent comments/commenters (where the epsilon around "ragebait" and "adjacent" can be quite wide).
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