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Culture War Roundup for the week of November 24, 2025

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I am willing to believe this, but trans types seem to have stereotypes about themselves- theres clearly a subculture there. Is there anyone who feels like writing up what the ‘trans normie’ is like?

Based on a very trans-heavy niche of science fiction I like (i.e. almost all protagonists are trans people written by trans):

  • Gender non-comforming
  • Slim, a bit soft.
  • Knew from a young age they were different
  • Competent in their niche but oppressed more broadly - low down in the overall hierarchy, looked down on, not desired or treated with respect
  • Has a few friends but not many. Occasionally adopted by an extrovert
  • Likes girly things: long hair, loose flowy clothes / dresses but not usually girly hobbies except maybe art
  • ADHD / autistic, prone to stimming in a 'cute' way
  • Life is usually a bit of a mess: disorganised, unhealthy. "Remember to eat and to take your meds," is a mantra that is seen as very important advice.
  • Soft-hearted to everyone except bigots, charitable (but too poor to follow through, alas!) "You are valued, you are loved," is also a common mantra.

Ok, but this is obviously idealization of trans people by themselves, right? What's their view of themselves as nonfiction? What are the shibboleths of the subculture?