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Culture War Roundup for the week of December 15, 2025

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So yeah, give me money Donnie. I’m happy to be your client, and in exchange for supporting you, I’ll take more money anytime you feel like handing it out. Your patronage is genuinely better for me, and the best patronage I’ll ever have, because I won’t be around in the military for King James the First. I find it very unlikely that this will happen, as in less than 0.001% chance, but if Donnie ordered the troops to move on Congress and the Supreme Court, I wouldn’t care. Those organizations have been against me since before I was born. They have proven that they have nothing to give me as a client, and in fact take from me and from my children. Better by far that a new patron/client relationship begins to develop, so that change can be made.

These are the thoughts of a mercenary. You can think your country is doing wrong and want to improve it but it stands for something. And yes, you should be mad and you should want things to change and we've all been failed in many ways but you really want to call off the whole 250 year American experiment because of these set backs? The fight is over, democracy has failed? a decade long mania that's on the pullback and we're giving up? That's pathetic.

disgusted by this insight into the mind of someone who gave the best years of his life to his country

Spare me the melodrama, Civilian roofers have a higher fatality rate than service members. I don't mean to strike out at the important status we afford our soldiers too much but I'll do no more damage to it than your whining does.

I don’t tell you how to be an accountant

We're talking about how to be an American and we all have a stake in this thing.

You can think your country is doing wrong and want to improve it but it stands for something

Well maybe you just have a disagreement on what that something is.