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PaperclipPerfector  4mo ago (text post)   3536 thread views

Friday Fun Thread for December 19, 2025

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I still had to give her a hard time about the timing, though. 1:30 in the morning after a grueling day is not exactly the cinematic peak I had envisioned

I have come to the conclusion that women are incapable of discussing heavy topics with a man unless he is falling asleep on his feet.

Regardless, congratulations.

Is this a thing for everyone? Because I have also observed this.

My guess is that it's the thing you do where it's late and night and your mind starts wandering about all sorts of heavy topics: plans, ideas, memeories, past arguments, regrets, etc. And women just have to say it out loud right then and there because that's when they thought about it.

The truth is that it's probably everyone who does this, and I just don't see it from men as much because I'm straight.

I don't do this. I save my nighttime thoughts for later when/if it's an appropriate time/place to say them out loud, if they're worth saying out loud at all. I guess I only have a very small number of data points to work with, but I'm also extrapolating from the general stereotype of men being more stoic.

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