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Culture War Roundup for the week of December 29, 2025

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What is the alternate answer here? Restrict Grok from putting people in a bikini, ahegao face, milk sprayed on them? Restrict Grok, they'll just go back to civitai where this stuff has been going on for years. Men clearly desire lewd images of women.

How are you supposed to restrict this? If it's libel, then what about the time-honoured tradition of spreading false rumours about people, is that banned too? Do we all line up and go to the nanny state about how we were wrongly smeared as whiny, dumb, small-penised, ugly bitches who did something unspeakable at a party? Do we all line up in front of some ruinously slow legal system and give lawyers money to defend our reputations (they can't defend your reputation even if you win in court)? Do we have AIs surveiling every private groupchat to defend the honour of maidens? A gigantic Chinese style state surveillance apparatus to uphold the wholesomeness of the entire internet?

A given chick certainly makes it easy for Grok, when chances are she has already uploaded or sent lots of skimpy photos of herself that a guy can use in the generative process to make bikini pics or porn of her. Especially when Grok's training data already contains a vast sea of other chicks who have uploaded nudes, bikini pics, porn of themselves. Minimal edits needed to render a vaguely-plausible photo or even a quite realistic one.

The usual answer: We can expand the protections afforded females by limiting the freedom and protections afforded males. We can easily find some gerrymandered reason why Grok should be neutered, why things like "revenge porn" and making AI porn should be illegal (with the de facto burden of proof being on the defendant), while things like smearing someone as a "whiny, dumb, small-penised, ugly bitch[]" falls under free speech. If a man objects, it would only serve as further proof that he is, in fact, a whiny, dumb, small-penised, ugly bitch.

A woman who calls a man a rapist in an "Are We Dating the Same Man?" social media group is speaking her Emotional Truth and Lived Experience as they at least once had sex after she had a few drinks. A man who uploads a nude of her to "Are We Dating the Same Woman?" may face prison time and/or a hefty monetary judgment, if such a group hadn't already been yeeted.