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Culture War Roundup for the week of January 5, 2026

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It struck me later, but it's worth noting that A is consistently referred to as Mr. A throughout the report.

In the context of a British hospital, that means:

  • A senior surgeon, since they shirk the doctor title for ~traditional reasons
  • A med student, since interns are called doctors
  • Someone who isn't a doctor at all: nurses, ward staff, admin etc

It is very unlikely that he's a senior surgeon. He could be a med student. He might be a particularly dimwitted porter.

Does this make things better or worse? Idk. I would only hope a medical "colleague" would have the common sense not to come up with such farcical excuses, but I've met idiots in the profession. They are overrepresented in both those making and receiving GMC complaints.

That being said, it is still idiotic, regardless of career choice.

Mr. B doing some administrative task while in the same room as a Dr codes as young intern to me (and his included writing, like 'not very slay' codes as very young), but you'd know far better than I how the UK medical norms on that go. Doesn't necessarily mean Dr. Stefan was looking especially young as chickenhawks go, but could be part of it.

Agreed that it's a hilariously bad as an excuse, even assuming Mr. A was genuinely derpy enough to have bought Grindr's 'it's a social meeting app' spiel.