The Wednesday Wellness threads are meant to encourage users to ask for and provide advice and motivation to improve their lives. It isn't intended as a 'containment thread' and any content which could go here could instead be posted in its own thread. You could post:
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Requests for advice and / or encouragement. On basically any topic and for any scale of problem.
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Updates to let us know how you are doing. This provides valuable feedback on past advice / encouragement and will hopefully make people feel a little more motivated to follow through. If you want to be reminded to post your update, see the post titled 'update reminders', below.
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Advice. This can be in response to a request for advice or just something that you think could be generally useful for many people here.
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Encouragement. Probably best directed at specific users, but if you feel like just encouraging people in general I don't think anyone is going to object. I don't think I really need to say this, but just to be clear; encouragement should have a generally positive tone and not shame people (if people feel that shame might be an effective tool for motivating people, please discuss this so we can form a group consensus on how to use it rather than just trying it).
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Okay so this is interesting. Am I reading this correctly you are hoping for a meet cute with a woman at a sex club and from this…a relationship? What is your relationship history like? How often do you attend sex clubs? As a single unaccompanied male, what percentage of your visits result in any sexual activity with a woman? Are you bisexual? Do you use prostitutes?
Hope, no, have an absurd unrealistic fantasy, yes. Though, as it turned out, not entirely unrealistic. With once to twice a year over a handful of years, 100% of results so far. The rest of the questions go into general interrogation rather than the concrete topic, so I'll leave them unanswered.
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