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Lykurg  We're all living in Amerika  1yr ago (putanumonit.com)   4166 thread views

Why Are Women Hot? – Put A Number On It!

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Primarily relevant to here through the discussion of what people claim to find attractive vs. choose, but also considers various other measures of attractiveness. I dont agree with all these analyses but think its worth posting simply for considering the topic in a lot more detail then Ive previously seen.

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I've discussed in a past comment that "high status" women not being the most biologically attractive is just status competition rearing its head once again.

Also I think there is a disconnect between biological attractiveness and "beauty standards". A mate that looks a certain way is an indicator of status, that certain way might not be the most biologically attractive.

Additionally, human sexuality is dual-track, and the physical avatars of "madonna" and "whore" differ. The same phenomenon is seen in men, with women splitting top marks between hypersexualized "bad boys" and "dad bods". r/k selection, whatever you want to call it. There are at least two (and probably more) "ideal" body types, looks, whatever you want.

with women splitting top marks between hypersexualized "bad boys" and "dad bods"

No one actually likes dad bods. When you ask women what a "dad bod" is, they explain it's "strong, but strong from picking their child up all day and not from going the gym" or some similar crap, which actually means "strong from going to the gym, but not shredded" in reality. They aren't talking about being attracted to beer bellies.

Well, "Dad bod" doesn't mean beer belly or even out of shape.

Dad bod means the kind of in-shape that normal, attractive people used to look like, as opposed to the HGH monsters even comedians who get Marvel gigs have to become. Harrison Ford in the 80's is kind of the ideal of this, and obviously, not many guys can look like Harrison Ford in 1985, but it's lot easier to be 70% of Harrison Ford in 1986, than 70% of Chris Helmsworth in 2019, and the upside is a lot of women actually prefer 70% of Ford, as opposed to 70% of Hemsworth (or for a more hyperbolic example, The Rock).

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