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1/12 for me with my current partner being the 1. I’m lucky(?) in the sense that I’ve dated quite a bit but I have another regret about not marrying my previous partners. I do regret some of the ways I acted, but not that we didn’t end up together.
The one partner that may have qualified left me because I didn’t break a stated boundary, which I found stupid enough to disqualify her. Basically she told me the whole “I don’t want to do X my parents would never approve,” so I didn’t. Turns out that’s what she wanted the whole time.
Overall most people I’ve dated have been highly depressed and/or anxious, like myself. Even my current partner. I hate the modern medical distinctions and think they’re full of holes, but I do think it takes a neurodivergent person to truly bond with another one.
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