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Culture War Roundup for the week of January 26, 2026

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My wife knows a bit better but I think her deal is that she mostly feels like she lives in a sick society and wants to escape to Europe

In this respect, my wife has similar feelings. She now agrees with me that America is in decline and she, too, would love to live elsewhere. (ETA: I'm not necessarily so sanguine on the living elsewhere bit.) However, she has never been out of the country and has yet to experience actual culture shock, let alone any sort of negativity or hostility directed at her for being American.

I get it. Even though she mostly avoids media (we're the usual no TV in house, no subscriptions, she minimizes screen use herself) she still can't help catch politics contagion from her friends and the few times a week she checks FB to see what her local mom's affinity group is up to.

And in this respect, we differ. My wife is informed by her reading of NPR, which she does daily, and her political podcasts of similar vein.

The irony in all this is my goal in my posts to socials isn't to own the libtards! My goal is to try to help people see that we're not living in a fascist dystopia. Billionaires don't matter! Things are improving! The economy is relatively good! Don't believe the hype about declining longevity and health care! Stop despairing all of the fucking time.

And people get so mad about it. (emphasis added)

And this is precisely the part where long experience has taught me not to engage.

She now agrees with me that America is in decline and she, too, would love to live elsewhere.

I think everyone's realizing this. Left, right, and center. The debate is over who's causing it and what we should do about it. On that note I think there are things that most parts of the political spectrum have a good point about, because they notice elements of the decline that others don't, or don't want to notice.

I think the left is broadly correct about social mobility being down, and the benefits of productivity being increasingly centralized, and normal people losing economic power and agency, and the right is broadly correct about social cohesion being down, and people being unwilling to contribute to the common good, and people being more motivated by personal expression and self-actualization than participation in society. (And centrists for their part are right about social mood being elevated, and political anger being out of control, and political intensity causing mental distress.) The issue is these things are all connected.

But I do think the root cause is that productivity increases have declined in the past 10-15 years, so there's less pie to distribute, meaning that there's a drive to centralize and cut down on waste rather than spread treasure, which is why store closures and layoffs have accelerated. The economic incentive is to extract more value from each individual customer or employee while providing less real value in return. It was easy for America to feel great and happy and joyous in the midst of economic good times during the baby boom or the 80s/90s deregulation capitalism fun fest, but now that lean times are here, the knives are coming out.