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What was funny to me was watching the "liberal" normie people at the football party try to reconcile their natural distates for spanish music with their need to appear to be "good people." Brain static. My wife, presumably the most conservative woman in the room, thought it was better than the past two half-time shows.
For my part I was hanging with the kids watching one of them play Farm Simulator 25, a far more interesting use of my time than anything related to the NFL or horrible Halftime shows (I hate medleys so I always hate the halftime show).
The idea that kids are interested in farming feels refreshing and wholesome in the context of this whole debate. And, I might add there were a half dozen kids or more at this party and none of them gave two shits about football. I wonder what NFL viewership will look like in 10 years. My sense is the NFL is desperate.
Kendrick wasn't a particularly high bar to clear. I do find it kind of hilarious how the modern 'popular black American intellectual auteur's main contribution to the culture in recent years is just implying a major pop star likes teenagers
Usher better since his peak output way more fun than Bad Bunny's even if he's clearly past prime now.
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Yo I bet they’d be even more interested in farming if they saw what kind of girls hang out in the sugarcane fields
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