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I guess you will not believe me, but in 2023 it was the case that I was kept from buying Amtrak tickets without as many adults as there are kids. Maybe it was a COVID rule. You have to admit, it would be weirdly specific for me to just make it up.
Where do you live that you see kids unattended all the time? I have never seen that since 2010 or so.
I don't think you made it up. I have no idea what happened, who told you what, what you saw on a website, or what the code that ran their online reservation system did in the past. But I did just go to the internet archive, since you gave me a date. Maybe things were different! I'm in a 'checking' mood today, I guess. Here is the same page on their website, but from January 2023, the first of the snapshots they have available from 2023. In the spot where they would have had the equivalent phrase, the wording is slightly different:
Again, I could imagine interpreting this either way. I don't have a way of verifying what the code on their website allowed/disallowed three years ago. However, that archived page also says:
I don't know how to interpret that in any way other than that you could have had more children than you had adults. It's just the discounts that adjust, depending on details. [EDIT: It is entirely plausible that the code they used to run their online reservation system in 2023 was broken and that resulted in rejects rather than discounting according to the stated rules. I can't check that. But their stated policy appears to allow it.]
I'm in the US. Not looking to give any more information than that.
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