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Is it not correct to use that marker? My license says I'm 4'11". If I wanted it changed to 5'11", not because I am 5'11", but because I want to be, would that not be incorrect?
No, obviously the blacks lynched in the Jim Crow era were killed for being black. I believe that because their killers made it clear they were acting with anti-black motives. Meanwhile, the deaths of trans people I've seen are usually no different from, say, a sex worker getting killed by an angry customer or pimp.
If you're going to compare anti-trans violence to Jim Crow, please give me a specific case where something like this has happened.
A lot of people talk a big game but are unwilling or unable to put their money where their mouth is. For how much anti-trans sentiment there is in the First World, there are remarkably few instances of actual violence enacted based on it.
What standards? That you have to be honest about what you were born as? I thought we did away with gender standards entirely. A man can be emotional and wear a dress if he wants, but he's still a man. In olden times he would have been mocked and derided as a woman.
Has this ever actually happened?
I don't think they do. For example, normal people are not allowed to groom children into living an alternative sexual lifestyle, so trans people should not be allowed to do that either. Which standards do you think are stricter than the ones normal people are held to?
First, what externalities do conservative pundits even cause? An externality is an effect that you don't suffer but others do. Most conservative pundits have to live under the effects of their own policies and often are happy to do so. For example, Charlie Kirk made the (often mocked) nuanced argument that a tyrannical government is so terrible that the Second Amendment is worth keeping around even if it leads to a few (statistically rare) mass shootings, or in other words, the optimal number of mass shootings is not zero. In contrast, gun control advocates often don't have to suffer the negative effects of their policies when they are wealthy enough to live in a nice neighborhood and/or afford private protection. In other words, they hold luxury beliefs.
Second, the alternative to murder is speech. If anyone had an issue with Charlie Kirk, they could just talk to him. That one chose instead to shoot him makes speech less likely to happen in the future and murder more likely.
I'm not sure what difference this makes.
Police regularly use identification to catch criminals. If identification is not accurate, that makes their job harder. I benefit from police being able to quickly and accurately identify people. If we are to have licenses, they should at least be useful for this purpose.
Also, we can still prohibit people from driving even if we don't have a licensing regime.
That is the question at hand! The Red Tribe says it is; the Blue Tribe says it isn't.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_people_killed_for_being_transgender#2020s
Note the 2022 murder of Luo, a trans-woman in Wuhan who was murdered while using the men's restroom.
That 'what you were born as' is anyone else's business.
Many people are still attempting to maintain them.
See above.
There's a difference between 'groom children into living an alternative sexual lifestyle' and 'make it harder for parents to groom children into being homophobic bigots'.
The standard where someone existing as gay or trans gets equated to 'grooming'.
Making society less friendly to people who don't fulfill 100.00% of a certain narrow concept of 'normality'.
Yes! We are in agreement on this! I am merely extending that maxim to make a general rule!
(I'm guessing that you are a cis-man; if you are a cis-woman, transpose the genders in the following.)
I'm asking how you would feel if you had been assigned female at birth, and they put an 'F' marker on your documents, as that is closer to what a trans-woman goes through when her documents carry an 'M' marker.
Hence the photograph. Also, there do exist trans individuals who absent close examination would be more accurately identified by their post-transition gender.
Why doesn't the Blue Tribe contest this for height, date of birth, or race?
Should I go through the list and address every one of them? None of these people were killed solely for being trans. I'll do just one to start.
Talk about being economical with the truth! In reality, Ariyanna and his friend (another trans-identifying boy) got in a fight with Jimmy's girlfriend, who then suggested he shoot the party up. He showed up with an assault rifle and asked who was fighting, to which Ariyanna admitted to. He then asked "Are you a boy or a girl?" and Ariyanna said he was a boy, and that's when he fired.
So a guy killed another guy for beating on his girlfriend. Now, could he have had some hateful bigotry in his heart that led him to use the beating as a pretext? It's not impossible, but I doubt it when there's no evidence of such. It makes far more sense to kill someone for a perceived slight to honor (e.g. because you beat my girlfriend) than because you're just a transgender who exists. Taking this death and extrapolating it to be a part of some trend of anti-trans murders is, frankly, irresponsible when it's just as likely a normal person would have died in these circumstances as a trans person would.
It makes far more sense to go with the angle of black-on-black crime, or male/youth violence, or even "this is why we need gun control". But going with an anti-trans angle is confusing at best and malicious framing at worst.
The rest of the list proceeds similarly. Don't even get me started on Brianna Ghey.
That's not really a gender standard so much as a privacy standard. If people aren't allowed to find out what gender someone was born as, do women's spaces and women's locker rooms and women's bathrooms just not exist anymore, when enforcing them requires that knowledge?
Who? I'm sure some conservatives still expect boys to play with trucks and girls with dolls, but I would be hard-pressed to find conservative parents who maintain gender standards so much that, should their son play with dolls, they declare him a girl. Meanwhile, a blue triber is more likely to do exactly that.
Is there some sort of epidemic of parents grooming their children into being homophobic bigots that I'm unaware of?
To my knowledge, this largely doesn't happen. Kiwi Farms, a site that documents trans and gay grooming, doesn't accuse just anyone trans/gay of grooming merely for being trans/gay. They do it with specific, documented evidence of specific grooming actions.
I'm having a hard time finding a policy, blue or red, that wouldn't be indicted by this standard. 100.00% or even 99.99% is an extremely high bar to clear. Every policy that could actually exist in the real world must disadvantage someone somehow, even slightly. The nature of policies is that we have to choose the best tradeoffs.
I'm confused on what you mean by extending the maxim, since I thought that it was already a general rule that bad argument gets counterargument, does not get bullet.
But I wasn't assigned female at birth.
Ok, I know, "I did have breakfast". But I think this is an absurd hypothetical and to my knowledge a male has never been assigned female at birth, barring rare cases of malpractice or intersex babies. If I was somehow assigned female at birth despite clearly being male, I would suspect that the nurse who did it had a screw loose in her brain. It could even get as bad as filing a malpractice lawsuit due to potential knock-on effects from having the wrong marker.
I don't think this is related to the trans experience unless trans people think there is a conspiracy out to get them and deny them their real gender.
A photograph is not a foolproof method of identification alone and should not be used alone. People's appearances change and they can quickly be outdated, or they can look like someone else. Hence we use other markers, which should be kept accurate if they are to be useful.
That would be how one would back up the assertion that
If a trans person is murdered, and a cis person would not have been murdered ceterus paribus, that counts in my book as 'murdered for being trans', just as a black person who is murdered, if a white person in the otherwise exact same circumstances would not have been murdered, was killed for being black.
No, they try to shame and bully him into not playing with dolls.
Yes. People aren't born with the desire to victimise gay people, just as they aren't born with the desire to victimise any of the other categories of people their families teach them to hate. (Readers of a certain age might remember a Public Service Announcement that said "Hate is a four-letter word. So is love. Which one will you teach your children?)
Extending it to "A person hypothetically causing negative externalities does not give you unlimited licence to persecute them, even if not doing so means that the externalities will continue."
The hypothetical at which I was aiming was one in which you, with your current mind, had been born with female parts. Would you, in that case, feel that the 'F' marker was viscerally wrong? (Or would you look between your legs and conclude yourself to be a woman? In that case, you would be what Ozy Brennan calls 'cis-by-default'. [Thing of Things, January 2015])
But 'what do you have in your pants' isn't very useful outside a very narrow set of circumstances; 'what did you have between your legs when you were born' isn't useful even then!
I don't think it's productive to go through each case unless you also do your own research to find non-trans-related reasons for the murders. The burden of proof is on the ones who assert that trans people are being targeted for murder, not on others to disprove those claims. If there's a specific case that you think is particularly merited, sure, we can discuss it. But I'm not going to sit here and repeat almost the same thing every time. I'm comfortable saying that most of those deaths were unrelated to being trans and only gain media attention just because the victim happens to be trans.
Ok. Surely that's less damaging than declaring him a girl.
News to me. I would like some evidence or sources for this phenomenon.
I agree that people aren't born with hateful desires, but this doesn't make sense to me. I don't think families teach their kids to hate gay people. I think it's more complicated than that. People form their opinions usually through observation and interaction with the specific groups, and learned information from sources like the Internet. Sometimes they will have negative opinions, and that's not because they just irrationally hate them, but because they've taken everything they've looked at and come to their own conclusion. In particular, I think a lot of opinions about gay people can be traced back to the actions of gay people.
I agree with this in the abstract but I suspect that you and I might operationalize this differently. So let me ask, what policy do you think is giving unlimited license to persecute someone for a hypothetical negative externality?
No. I don't know on what basis I could say the marker was wrong.
A gender marker is extremely useful. You're talking about, at a glance, being able to distinguish between 50% of the population. Gender is often the first thing that people notice about others. Cops will call out "suspect is a male" (among other attributes) and so when they are searching, they effectively have 50% of their search space reduced just by ignoring females. Names have to be asked for, weight and height are estimable but fallible at a distance. Race is also helpful, but given that there are more than two races in the world, the reduction in search space is less than 50%.
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