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PaperclipPerfector  4d ago (text post)   1707 thread views

Friday Fun Thread for February 27, 2026

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My guess would be that the situation was one where the girl agreed with what he said, and was pleased he had the courage to say something she thought was true. Saying something controversial which a girl disagrees with would be unlikely to win her approval.

In this specific case, it wasn't so much that I said something controversial as I said something that I had put some original thought into. I think she was agnostic (heh) on the question, but the point was that I was the sort of person who thought deeply and independently.

It's hard to describe exactly how this resonated if people don't know me or her personally, but I can say that she likes being the devil's advocate and challenging assumptions based on evidence. Some ladies are hot for professor, and I can be... professorial.

I can't recommend or extrapolate from this to give generalized dating advice, other than to say that standing out and taking risks can be rewarded, and at least one woman admires taking intellectual/social risks in that way that I did on that night. But I think I was just in the right place at the right time, and met someone who was looking for an intellectual companion.

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