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Ok, please identify three prominent feminists in the United States whose primary concern is legal equality.
Edit: My mental model based on years of observations is that (1) feminists -- generally speaking -- are man-haters, grifters, and generally bad people; and (2) the idea that feminism just wants legal equality is a fantasy used by feminists to deflect attention from this.
But I am open to be proven wrong. At a minimum, if "we just want legal equality" is a significant part of the feminist movement and not just a motte, it should be pretty easy to identify 3 prominent feminists whose primary concern is legal equality. But I doubt you will be able to do it. I'm pretty confident that if you identify these individuals, it will be apparent that in reality (1) they spend little or no effort pursuing legal equality; and (2) most of their effort is spent man-bashing, grifting, and/or demanding special treatment for women.
Admittedly, demands for special treatment for women are often disguised as demands for equality. For example, demands that more women be put on the boards of directors of big companies. But what gives the game away is that (1) these demands are not for legal equality but rather demands for equality in results; and (2) inevitably, these demands are very selective -- there is little or no complaint about the fact that the vast majority of coal mining deaths are male or the fact that the vast majority of homeless people are male.
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