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Same. Might be a lifetime supply.
I don't usually talk to people about this. Not much of a point. "Remember when everyone turned into rabid witchhunters and tripped over themselves clamoring for harsher punishments for those filthy, subhuman enemies of all that is good and decent in the world, those who rejected the covid vaccines?" doesn't make for good conversation nowadays. But oh, I do remember. "Remember how it was absolutely essential to pretend to care about the lockdowns and the measures and the distancing and the vaccines, right until the war in the Ukraine distracted everyone?" isn't what people like to talk about. Do you recall the sheer hypocrisy of the recently-vaccinated congregating and spreading the virus after all, but hey, they're jabbed so it's okay? I remember. I remember how all the political parties were on board with the program, even the liberals I supported at the time, of which I had previously thought as a reasonable compromise. Well look what the compromise got me. There was exactly one party that was against all that, and I suppose I'm a nazi now. I remember having to drive for hours to find the right kinds of people to swab me so I could visit my newborn in the hopsital - where, of course, nobody so much as glanced at the test results I brought with me; they just wouldn't let me in without them (after three rounds of that nonsense, I sought and found a backdoor and just made my way in without going through security). Oooh, I remember. I remember what stuff my co-citizens are actually made of. I remember. I remember being banned from visiting my ailing grandparents because don't you know it's the unvaccinated who spread disease, only for my sanctimonious vaccinated aunt to bring it to them instead because she went to a party. I remember being told with great glee that, surely I was aware I could not go to the family gathering, unvaccinated as I was. I also remember sitting around a table with my sports buddies, chatting away all evening, but when I rose to go to the toilet and refused to put on a mask for that, I was threatened with being thrown out. I remember needing to bring negative test results to be allowed to participate in fencing practice, since I had no proof of vaccination. I remember the constant drone of politics, media and private people demanding that something must be done about those unvaccinated, source of all evil!
Yeah, I remember.
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