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Looking for anti-woke books on parenting, preferably secular. How does raise children to not be woke? How does one teach them the gospel of success through hard work and mastery through practice? How does one handle the hypergamy question? How to balance tolerance with an appropriate level of caution around "inner-city youth"?
Anti-anything is a bad way to raise children. Pro-something is a better.
In my experience, lead by example. In my extended family, a cousin's likelihood to stay in committed relationships is directly related to the health of their parent's marriage.
Exposure. Take them around the city. Let them see the city. They'll start pattern matching. The most sheltered are the most delusional.
Set up increasingly demanding loops of challenge -> struggle -> gratification.
At a personal level, figure out if you want to indoctrinate your kids with your opinion or give them the tools to form their own.
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