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He has a specific interpersonal style that many, many people have been able to figure out to mutual and individual benefit.
His opposition generally seems to refuse to engage (often because it generates easy political gains) and abandons their professionalism.
Maybe it shouldn't be, but the American presidency effectively represents the boss of the free world. When you get a new boss you got to adjust to the boss, refusing to do so is not wise.
This response reads like a congressional hearing where the person being grilled is asked a very straightforward question, and the person responds in a way crafted to be technically true but is obviously trying to avoid the thing they don't want to admit.
Trump's specific interpersonal style is called being unprofessional, the very thing you are calling out others for being.
The easy answer is that other people don't see Trump's plans or deals as positively as you do. Trump's particular way of negotiating is usually to frame it that you need something he has, and he will try to extract as much from you as possible in the process.
So now Trump is trying to sell something most people don't want - a war with unrealistic objectives - after pissing them off. He's not in a position to play his usual games so now he needs to be the one to learn a new trick.
The U.S. is influential, but their boss he is not.
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