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Mind you, no one has been able to actually show any empirical evidence for it, because professional fighting sports women are extremely rare to begin with and them fighting untrained typical couch potato men is even rarer than that. It's been entirely Just So narratives, something they've made up in their head that being able to do better weightlifting and exercise of various kinds can't possibly translate into victory, despite us knowing of the few examples such things have happened, where the trained woman won like this and this one where a pro MMA woman beat two men with knives.
There's a certain type of guy who just can't fathom that men and women while statistically different do actually have a lot of overlap still. The average WNBA player is four inches taller than the average man for instance! It's not "all women are tiny 4'9 and all men are big 6'7", there are tall women and short men. There are strong women and weak men. Men are faster than women on average but the fastest women can definitely outrun basically every single one of the nerds here. So many men out there who think walking a mile is a long distance essentially seem to think they'd beat a ultramarathon pro just because that pro is female. Yes the typical male pro player can beat Serena Williams, lazy and fat couch potato man ain't gonna do it when he's out of breath after a few minutes of running.
They overlap sometimes, especially when the women are peak training and the man is just a random piece of shit trying to mug people and probably doesn't work out at all, and the man gets his ass beat up cause actually she was a high elite fighter.
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