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Culture War Roundup for the week of April 13, 2026

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I'd be curious to know if there are serial abortion users.

If I'm reading this data from 2016 correctly approximately 6% of women obtaining an abortion have had three or more, approximately 40% inclusive have had one or more.

If I'm reading this data from 2016 correctly...

One important thing to remember is that data is tracking abortions not women. If the entire population was one woman that had five abortions, then the data would say 20% of abortions are the first one, 20% are the woman's second, and 60% are her third or later.

Was there any demographic or economic information attached? I will say "one or more" is not really the boundary I'd like. I intuit (maybe biasedly) that the amount/psyche/profile of people who get 1 is different than the amount who get 2+

Sadly not as far as I can tell. I share the intuition most are one and done, two's borderline, and 3+ is definitely a category worth knowing more about.

When looking for the data I came across this anecdote, published in Andrew Sullivan's Daily Dish back in 2009

Twenty-seven years ago I went to the ER after having suffered my fourth miscarriage. After genetic screening, my husband had previously been diagnosed with a chromosal defect which would result in the spontaneous abortion of about 50% of our conceptions (actually, more like 66). It's called a balanced reciprocal translocation, and the anomaly is so severe that the fetus dies within about 12 weeks of conception. We managed to eventually have a son and daughter, but both are carriers who will in turn someday face the same daunting experiences we endured.

Anyway, back to the ER. As I was registering to get my D and C [dilatation and curettage], a woman barged in the front door demanding an abortion immediately. The attendant told her she would have to wait her turn, to which she responded that she'd already had six abortions and it was no big deal, couldn't they just rush her case a little since she had several more appointments to keep that day.

What a contrast we presented. One woman who was devastated by the loss of four babies countered by a woman who could so blithely give up one after another. My daughter is getting married this summer and, as I said before, she is a carrier. They will have to undergo genetic testing to confirm what we already know, and that is she will most likely have to endure the heartbreak of numerous miscarriages.

27 years before, which would've been 1992. I would be fascinated to know more about the demographics.