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It was probably poorly worded. My point wasn’t that revenge is limited to autists, or that mob mentality around this kind of thing as in your last example isn’t real. It’s that there is a specifically autistic catharsis around someone who was perceived to be ‘getting away with it’ apparently no longer ‘getting away with it’. To the victim or even observer this may be indistinguishable from ‘you hurt me, I hurt you’ revenge but I think there is a distinction, it’s more about the rigidity of the underlying rules. This is why I think autists are drawn to clear cut extreme ideologies like corporatist fascism or communism that define enemy classes and establish strong rules for the in group and out group.
I think you're more right than wrong. My normie coworkers point out the absurdities of the unfairness in our immediate environment all the time. But there's never seethe or resentment. Just passive acceptance of the fact that things are this way and there's no avenue to do anything about it short of home visits with a shotgun. Anything else is just signaling low status. 'Someone has to do something about this!' is the kind of cringe that gets emotionally unregulated teenagers hooked on 'KONY 2012'. It's too juvenile in its earnestness and sincerity for adults to buy into.
Same goes for black on white crime or the ethnic cleansing of white South Africans. No one normal wants to wallow in that crap, or even hear about it. You need a bit of 'autism', for a lack of a better term, to get past that hump of emotional negativity and look at things in a larger systemic context. And it's in that larger systemic context that the real resentment starts building, as ones understanding of scale and scope of the crimes and the consequences become larger and larger.
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No, just regular catharsis.
Autists are drawn to extreme ideologies because they have a logical consistency that makes sense in a theoretical framework, but fails upon contact with the messiness of real life.
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