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I don't want to delve to deeply into my personal life, mainly because I don't want to dox myself.
But in general I agree that (1) polygamy (and polygyny) are bad for society; and (2) age gap relationships can act as a kind of polygamy -- since (1) they can result in one man monopolizing the reproductive years of multiple women; and (2) they can result in a man not giving one set of children his full paternal attention.
That being said, the trope of the man who becomes successful and ditches his first wife for some young hottie is a bit like stranger kidnappings and police shootings of unarmed black men. All of these things are rare but splashy and get far more attention than they realistically deserve because they serve some kind of narrative. In reality, most divorces are initiated by women who are bored and/or monkey-branching and high class polygamists like Donald Trump, Leonardo DiCaprio, or Elon Musk are pretty far down on the list of things undermining society and making life more difficult for young men.
Surely you can give a broad coverage of how you came to be in such a wide age gap relationship.
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