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Christianity provides a path to redemption. "men bad" rhetoric does not. Putting down other men does not make me a better person in the eyes of the feminist,as it is me being a man that is the problem.
Sure it does, be a good male ally, don’t take up space, defer to women, acknowledge your privilege, pay for your sins, accept any abuse hurtled at you as remuneration for your sin.
Its all very Christian in nature.
None of that will cause the feminists to view me as any less tainted. In Christianity, I can be forgiven for doing evil deeds, and after a long period of redemption, people will see me as good and I can eventually be accepted by the group. For feminists, the fact that I am a male makes me part of the oppressor group, and no matter what I do to distance myself, I will always be an outsider. No matter how good I am, I will never be forgiven for the sins of men.
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None of that actually gives you an honorable place in the feminist or progressive movement, just more derision. What you actually need to do is score wins for the tribe in the public arena, then they'll let you do the creepiest sexist shit you can think of, and will even sweep it under the rug for you.
It's actually as anti-Christian as anything can be.
It’s a path to redemption not a path to place of honor. Unless you would claim that Christianity honors equality all sinners who have joined in following Christ. But considering the hierarchical nature of most churches I think thats a lot to swallow
Also, creepy megachurch pastors? Pedo Priests? Allowing people in power to abuse that power is classic human dynamics. Cast not the first stone unless ye are free from sin.
I had a similar tinge of a feeling when I watched Tucker Carlson's interview with Nick Fuentes and he said to him that, "According to Christianity... there's no such thing as blood guilt." I paused for a moment and thought "Has this guy even read his Bible at all?" The Bible is even more extreme on the attitude of blood guilt than North Korea is... The entire doctrine of Original Sin and generational curses going back to the Book of Genesis is wholly predicated on the foundation that our sins of today were earned based upon the actions of our forebearers. And the New Testament never abrogated this logic. We are all equal in Christ Jesus, if you're a Christian. If you're not, and you're damned, there's no salvation for you in the out-group.
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By "place of honor" I mean a place where you're a member of community in good standing. In Christianity that's going to church and confessing (+possibly making amends, depending on the nature of your sin), that's the "path to redemption", and if you're on it, no one will bother you unless you start bothering others.
They exist, but their existence was overblown compared to literally any other human institution.
I'm not talking about abuses of power. I'm talking about what the given worldview sees as a justified use of power.
I mean if “member in good standing with community” is your barometer then absolutely what i said applies to prog spaces. I exist in prog spaces and the avg white man is absolutely accepted as long as they mutter the shibboleths.
If anything they don’t really require you to believe them so much as you don’t cause waves or have some plausible deniability.
Now the infighting you are alluding to is among the leadership, the narcissists, the sociopaths. Aka not normal folks. And yes to have power requires special circumstances in the memeplex, but hereditary or ideological purity as a metric of power inside a movement is not unique.
...with the caveat that if a bunch of "underprivileged" people tell you you need to shut up and listen to them because you're privileged, that's what you have to do. That's not what I call "good standing".
Yeah, but they regularly put you in situations where it's hard to keep plausible deniability. Feminists thought that they have to say "trans women are women" just to be nice, and then they got told to wax feminine balls.
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I'll observe that the history of Christendom has no shortage of examples of both types of this behavior here: it's not like rank hypocrisy is a modern invention.
The difference being that Christianity does have a place of honor for you, even if you're not a champion smiting the infidels. For the progressives it's the only route to honor and glory, and it will only last for as long as you're useful to them. It's very pagan, and I feel like that's insulting to vast swathes of pagans.
The wokes are in the Proselytizing phase of their religion, akin to islam. Christianity had that phase but is post-Proselytizing now
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