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Oddly enough, D&D is becoming more and more popular among women and queer people. I know a surprising number of D&D groups where cis men are in the minority.
Yes, but those women all hate men unless they're gay.
I'm quite serious about this; the great proportion of the biological women who got into D&D, 5e specifically, are walking stereotypes of leftists with all the accompanying attitudes and annoying habits. Everything they don't like is a dog-whistle for something bad, every work of art is evaluated based on how queer it is, they're all "neurodivergent" as of six months ago, they formally announce their (she/her) pronouns in casual social interactions. The first words out of one of their mouths were a tirade about how someone gatekept her and mansplained her, another one would never go on a date with a man because "she doesn't want to get assaulted", then abruptly lavished affection on some random guy when he mentioned being gay. They're surrounded by the nicest, most cautious, most overwhelmingly leftist feminist anti-racist cis men you're going to find, and have nothing but scorn for them. These weren't people I was chasing or even chatting up, this was all ambiently observed. I have worse stories about the one I chased.
It's singularly upsetting for me that my fucking hobby puts me in contact with these people whenever I interact with any part of the hobby outside of my little NuSR club.
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