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Culture War Roundup for the week of May 18, 2026

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This whole post against fairness as a cardinal virtue is about how it's bad for things to be unfair.

See the bit about nature, red in tooth and claw, the ultimate copout Hobbes introduced into the world for people who enjoy the current structure to use against anyone who tries to change it.

See the bit about Tyrants trying to enforce fairness. This is another appeal to nature, to the idea that the current state of the world is preferable in some way because it is natural, and it would be what, bad? Unfair? To try to change it.

If the world was actually the way it these ideas said it was, nobody would be able to write this post about it. There would be no wringing of hands about tyrants forcing society at gunpoint to allow women the right to vote and own property, as if property and voting sprung for nature. You would instead be living in Rousseau's state of nature, a solitary wanderer in the woods.

All those appeals to the past, or the future, or nature, are also appeals to emotion specifically the feeling you get when someone switches something on you or cuts in line, appeals to the feeling you get when it kinda seems unfair.

You can't avoid it. Much like UNO came with your Xbox, fairness came packaged with your prefrontal cortex.

So what is your defense against people and their prefrontal cortexes acting on the impulse that it's fair to destroy you? Obviously you'd do something to stop or prevent this from happening.

That which should be destroyed by fairness should be?