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No. To the best of my knowledge, no one has ever posted a comment here which I intended to reply to, but which I didn't have time to because "I have a job and family and stuff".
Either I reply to a comment (perhaps not immediately), or I don't bother replying because I have nothing to contribute.
Then why did you say
And
These seem to imply that you do not respond to every comment because of "times in which I was so occupied" and "routinely having more important things".
That's why I said "(perhaps not immediately)" in the paragraph immediately below the one you're quoting. Do you have attention-deficit disorder or something?
They don't, actually. I said "(I routinely have more important things to do than to be posting here)." I did not say "I routinely have more important things to do than to reply to comments here." Your reading comprehension is profoundly lacking.
The last one still doesn't make sense
This implies that you do similar and do not reply to every comment for the given reason "I routinely have more important things to do".
But ok maybe you do get around to all of them eventually. So what?
The difference here is that I don't reply to every comment and you do reply to every single one even if it takes you a long time? The first one is not strange or unique behavior, and is not a unique response to "why didn't you reply to this specific one?"
This is a tedious diversion. I'm not criticising anyone for being too busy to reply to comments. I was pointing out a commonality in language and phrasing which strongly suggest to me that you are a Darwin sockpuppet: specific language and phrasing that I don't recall anyone other than another Darwin sockpuppet using. You know exactly what I meant, stop pretending otherwise.
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No, it doesn't. Not every post made here is a reply to a comment specifically addressed to me. Do you know how "threads" work? You made a top-level post less than 24 hours ago. That was not a reply to anyone.
My response was to
It wasn't about "why didn't you reply to every top level post" it was "why didn't you reply to this comment" which the truthful answer is "I don't reply to every comment cause I have other stuff going on".
Which speaking of, work is picking up pretty hard now and I can't procrastinate much more so as fun as it is to argue with silly conspiracists online I have to call it.
There's the flounce, awesome.
I live in the East Coast, that was 10:48am my time on a Thursday. I have a job, I had a meeting at 11.
I don't know what time zone you live in but "Hey I have a job that keeps me busy often" and "Hey I have to go during peak job hours at my time zone" should be expected together??
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