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That isn't what she's talking about, however.
Consider a concrete example of hers: "drug roulette". She is not talking about internet randos sneering at her "oh that silly drug roulette and sex party chick, can't wait for her next twitter poll about fucking gnomes". That would be a vaguely reasonable thing for people who don't know her and dislike her to say.
According to her, it's because someone wrote on the internet that a) they attended parties she hosted b) drug roulette happened at more than one and c) one of the drugs is rohypnol.
That is not a "leap to incorrect conclusions" nor is it in any way based on her reputation or an edgy joke. It's based on an unambiguous and literal interpretation of a statement that someone made about her.
Yes, I'm agreeing that people tell baldfaced lies about her.
But it's not surprising that, given the persona she's cultivated, some people (irrationally) accept the bald-faced lie at nearly face value. She's living a life that shocks normies, so it's easier for normies to believe shocking things about her. I assume she finds this worth the tradeoffs!
Similar to how people believed many, many untrue things about Donald Trump, because his persona made it easy enough to believe. Even leaving aside their biased motivation to believe it.
Unfair? Sure. Unexpected? Not in my book.
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