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PaperclipPerfector  7d ago (text post)   2666 thread views

Small-Scale Question Sunday for June 21, 2026

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point is that not everyone shares your view of what a good time is

Obviously and I would even venture it's the vast majority of people.

it's narcissistic to view this as some kind of personal sleight.

I'm not so post-modern to think everyone's idea of a good time has equal value. Do I think this person is a degenerate for skipping out on an experience? Of course not. I will happily take them up on their offer of a quiet cocktail another night. If he asked me to game with him some night, or do a quick DnD campaign I would even though it's not my highest preference for an evening.

I'm not so post-modern to think everyone's idea of a good time has equal value.

TIL de gustibus non disputandum est is a postmodern sentiment.

Nevertheless it remains narcissistic to view his refusal to hang out with you through the lens of how it affects you.

Of course not. I will happily take them up on their offer of a quiet cocktail another night. If he asked me to game with him some night, or do a quick DnD campaign I would even though it's not my highest preference for an evening.

In all likelihood, he will never ask you to do this, though.

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