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These people, of course, were overwhelmingly self identifying as left, with bios full of symbols of correct current year, month and day causes.
Black lives matter! Trans women are women! Free Palestine! Cooking your own food is ableist, Doordash is human right!
But America is still land of opportunity, just follow teachings of the great guru Shagbark the Hobo King, and you too can find true frugal wife happy to live in shack and eat roadkill.
True trad Christian one, ofc, the atheist would want to do ..umm... nasty things to the roadkill, see the other current xitterstorm.
Usual example in "no god no morals, atheists owned!" eternal discourse is rape and murder, the xitter apologists recently upped the ante.
I enjoy occasionally reading something by Shagbark because he is great at doing just what he did in that tweet: starting with a generally good point (many women are attracted to a man who has a vision of some kind and mission in life) and then taking it in a totally insane direction. "You should live where costs are low... so move to wasteland upstate New York, eat roadkill, and get by on $10k per year!" Etc.
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