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https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/c1j1ye6n30no
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Tragic end.
I feel bad for the dude - honestly a hearty laugh is all I want when people violate social norms like this and show us how frankly evil our institutions can be.
Sure I can blame the dude for every lie told but it only permeates my life several levels deep … the association of someone like Arday and my life only really touches when the walks start crumbling down.
What gets me mad is the institutions.
It’s their fault! Every step of the way someone, anyone, could have stepped in and stopped folly.
But things snowball and here we are.
I don’t even know what I’m supposed to learn from this, and I don’t know how I can help make the world a better place than I left it. People used to change the world I feel like, and I’m only changing the people around me … which is something!
I’m 100% reading the biography about this.
Obviously unfortunate.
Morbid thought but it's a surprise this doesn't happen more often.
There's been multiple waves of cancellations now since the Justine Sacco situation. You'd assume quite a few suicides from people who just couldn't or refused to pick up the pieces. Maybe embarrassing cases aren't publicized.
some that come to mind.
this bbc article on Kim Sae-ron also mentions two more korean celebrities who died by suicide -- apparently due to being unable to cope with how much hate they were getting on social media -- Sulli and Goo Hara.
there was also that actor from glee, Mark Salling, who killed himself after getting caught with child porn in 2018. he was facing 4-7 years according to his wiki page.
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