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Any guides or advice for attending academic conferences? I'm a late bloomer in that regard so I haven't gone to a "real" conference before - nothing national or with much significance. I know, generally, that you go and listen to talks and "network", but that's far from a complete understanding. I feel like social norms in academia are so opaque. I don't want to be clueless upon arrival.
As tempting as it is to socialize with the people you know at a conference (fellow attendees from your organization, most likely), I'd recommend you at least make an effort to talk to someone new (daily?). It'll vary based on field, but "what is your research interest?" or "are you presenting? Tell me about your topic" are pretty evergreen. Some conferences provide meals, which I've found to be a good time for this. I'd expect many/most of these attempts to go nowhere (maybe they're a vendor of something you don't need), but the practice of talking about it and making connections is useful, and sometimes you learn something or meet someone interesting. If you want to be particularly savvy, find a paper/presentation that sounds interesting to you and try to chat with the specific author/speaker.
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