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Culture War Roundup for the week of February 27, 2023

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Define "cost of living". I'm pretty confident wife's sister's husband doesn't make as much as that random source says is necessary to live. Are you saying that if Canada wasn't paying them to have children, they'd be dead? Boy is that a substantial monetary incentive to have children....

Whether they're being "paid to have kids" is a claim that is not reflected in the legislation

So wait, you don't get

a maximum annual benefit of $6,833 per child to help with the cost of raising a family.

$6,833 per year ($569.41 per month) for each eligible child under the age of 6

$5,765 per year ($480.41 per month) for each eligible child aged 6 to 17

?? I thought you had a citation and everything!

on the whole I'd say it is paying people who have had children, not "paid to have kids."

This is a textbook example of a distinction without a difference. The whole premise of the original comment was the oodles of conversations here about using financial incentives, given to people who have had children, in order to nudge people in general to have more kids. Do you just think that, as a matter of first principles, this theory of incentivization doesn't actually conceptually link? This would be a novel challenge to the prevailing view around here, and you should really flesh it out. Preferably in a long-form top comment rather than buried here. I think lots of folks here would be interested in subscribing to your newsletter hearing your theory.

vs

Explain "vs". What is the core conceptual difference, in your mind?

similar to those in any developed nation

[citation needed], as the kids say these days.

Thanks! I have what I need to know about your position.

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